Book Club for Women
Book of the Month
Meeting August 10th, 2026
19:00 GMT / 14:00 EST
The Homemade God is a beautifully crafted and deeply moving novel that explores the complexities of family, grief and the stories we tell ourselves about the people we love. Set against the atmospheric backdrop of an Italian lakeside villa, the novel brings together a family whose relationships have been shaped by distance, old wounds and long-held assumptions.
With Rachel Joyce's signature warmth, emotional insight and gentle humour, the story examines how memory, perception and expectation can distort our understanding of those closest to us. As family members confront uncomfortable truths and unexpected revelations, they are forced to reconsider not only each other, but also themselves.
Blending moments of quiet reflection with emotional depth, The Homemade God explores themes of identity, forgiveness, belonging and the search for connection. It asks whether we can ever truly know another person, and whether it is possible to let go of the versions of people we have created in our own minds.
Thought-provoking, compassionate and rich in beautifully observed characters, The Homemade God offers plenty to reflect on and discuss, making it an excellent choice for book club readers.

She achieved international acclaim with her debut novel, The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry, which was shortlisted for the Booker Prize and went on to become a worldwide bestseller. Her other novels include Perfect, The Love Song of Miss Queenie Hennessy, Maureen Fry and the Angel of the North, and Miss Benson's Beetle, all of which have been praised for their compassion, wit and beautifully observed characters.
In The Homemade God, Joyce once again demonstrates her remarkable ability to blend humour with heartbreak, exploring themes of family, identity, grief and forgiveness with warmth, insight and emotional depth.
Born in London, Rachel Joyce lives in Gloucestershire with her husband, the actor Paul Venables. The Homemade God is her sixth novel.
- At the heart of the novel is a family brought together by loss. How did your understanding of each family member change as the story unfolded?
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The title, The Homemade God, is intriguing. What do you think it represents? How does it relate to the characters and the choices they make?
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Family relationships are often shaped by assumptions and misunderstandings. Which relationship did you find the most complex or compelling, and why?
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The novel explores the gap between who people really are and who we imagine them to be. Which character surprised you the most?
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Grief affects every character differently. Which portrayal of grief felt the most authentic or relatable to you?
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The setting of the Italian villa becomes almost a character in its own right. How did the location influence the mood of the story and the relationships between the characters?
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Secrets, silence and unspoken emotions run throughout the novel. Do you think honesty would have changed the outcome for this family, or are some truths better left undiscovered?
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Which character did you sympathise with the most? Did your loyalties shift as the novel progressed?
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Rachel Joyce often writes about ordinary people facing extraordinary emotional challenges. What did this novel suggest about the resilience of ordinary families?
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Forgiveness is an important theme throughout the story. Which characters struggle most with forgiveness, and do you think they ultimately find it?
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The novel asks us to consider whether we ever truly know the people closest to us. Do you think it is possible to fully understand another person?
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Were there any characters whose decisions frustrated or disappointed you? Looking back, do you think their actions were understandable?
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Identity and belonging are central themes in the novel. Which character seemed most comfortable with who they were, and which was still searching for a sense of self?
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Rachel Joyce balances humour with moments of heartbreak. How did this combination affect your reading experience? Did any particular scene stay with you?
- If you could ask one of the characters a question after finishing the novel, who would you choose and what would you ask?
Future Book Club Titles
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Meeting 30th November, 2026
A Man Called Ove by Fredirk Backman
Meeting 28th December, 2026
The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman
Past Book Club Titles
April The Measure by Nikki Erlick Scored 5.5
May How to Read a Book by Monica Wood Scored 8.3
June Educated by Tara Westover Scored 5.9
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October Leonard and Hungary Paul by Rónán Hession Scored 9.4
October Gabriel's Moon by William Boyd Scored 5
November Into the Magic Shop by Dr. James R. Doty Scored 7
December A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens Scored 9
June Poor by Catriona O’Sullivan Scored 9
July The Wedding People by Alison Espach Scored 7.5
August The Berry Pickers by Amanda Peters
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4. "Untamed" by Glennon Doyle
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